Who's in Your Circle?
So, if you follow me on Facebook – (and of course you should à Renea Paulsen @ManifestandReset) you would know that I posted my first video this past Friday. Some people think that coaches are perfect and don’t go through their own blocks and resistance. Let me be the one to tell you that this isn’t fucking true AT ALL! Coaches are human and as such, deal with their own bullshit that comes up for them from time to time. I had resisted doing a video for so long, trying to use the excuses that I didn’t have the right camera, lighting, microphone, etc.
So long story short, I ended up giving myself a deadline (well, really I was given a deadline so that I couldn’t skirt around it anymore – lol). I got over my own crap with resistance that I was dealing with, filmed it and out to the world it went. I watched the views grow and felt so proud that I had finally fucking done it – it wasn’t so scary after facing it. I had several of my friends and followers share it on their own timeline. I checked in yesterday on my Facebook feed and saw that one of my friends that had shared it had several comments. I couldn’t help myself… I just HAD TO LOOK!
There was a comment from someone saying how everything I was saying was crap and that they should stay away from it and blah blah. Of course, when you put yourself out there, especially on the internet, you are going to get disbelievers. This isn’t the first time I have encountered a disbeliever and it certainly won’t be my last. However, what filled my heart with so much love was the response that a few people had. I will fully admit that these people are my friends that responded, but that just what makes it even better.
They stuck up for me and my message – a big reason is because they know EXACTLY the type of person that I am. That I am here to spread this message that LIFE DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THAT HARD because I have ALWAYS wanted to help people. I have been helping people in some way shape or form for my whole life – this is my fucking CALLING! This is what I LOVE to do! I have seen the Law of Attraction completely transform lives including my own – this is just too fucking GOOD to keep a secret!
The best part, is not that my friends called me or texted me to tell me that they stuck up for me when someone was talking shit. They weren’t looking for recognition or praise or even a thank you – they simply did it because as my friends, they fully support me. I don’t have to worry that when I turn my back that they are going to do anything else. They are who I choose to have in my inner circle based off of the type of people they are and the integrity that they possess.
Why am I telling you this story? Friendship with people is very important and sometimes you can have people in your inner circle that are not that supportive of a friend. Maybe they are very negative and like to complain about everything or gossip about others. You know them, you leave the conversation drained, angry or just plain depressed. Take a step back and think, if they are gossiping about others – what are they saying about you behind your back? When you start using the Law of Attraction it can be difficult to talk about, especially if you don’t have an inner circle of supportive friends. I know that when I started using the Law of Attraction, I took a really good look at my inner circle; at who I was spending my energy and time with. I found that I had to make my inner circle a little smaller, but that was just temporary. By raising my energy, I actually attracted positive people into my life that were supportive and I would actually leave the conversation feeling amazing! The type of people that pick you up when you are feeling down.
A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.– Unknown
The point is that you get to fucking CHOOSE who is in your inner circle and who you choose to spend your energy on and with. Are you making those choices wisely? You become who you surround yourself with à so always choose wisely. Are these people going to support you in good times and in bad? Are they going to support you if you decide to jump out of your comfort zone and do something crazy/scary? Are they going to root for you and pick you up when you’ve hit a wall? Surround yourself with the right kind of people to help you on your journey towards your dream life. They will be more fucking fun along the way! I am so grateful to have an inner circle of amazing people in my life that support me along this journey. Remember…
Life Doesn’t Have to be That Hard
Love you bunches